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Post by Kyoko Honda on Oct 6, 2006 21:38:47 GMT -5
Oh, that's a relief.
Yay! More love for Bb! <3333
Okay, anger time... Uhm...
*Slaps self for liking the same guy for over 3 years and with no good reason.*
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Post by Ravik on Oct 8, 2006 1:38:14 GMT -5
Hey! Don't slap yourself over such small things. So what if you've liked the same person for 3 years straight! There is nothing wrong with liking a person! If you like him, you like him. If you're not with him, talk to him, but if you have, then you know how things are going to be, friends or not, you can still like him. As long as you've told him, it's better off being rejected than kicking yourself for never knowing what the person is going to say. But even so, if this person has rejected you, it does not mean because you still have feelings for this person, you cannot move on. If you keep your mind looming over the empty feeling for this person, you'll never be able to move past it. So what if the guy said "No", go hang out with your friends, meet new people. Like they always say "If, it does not work out with the person, they were not the person for you" which means that special "Someone" is still out there. Meat new people, hang around new faces, and maybe one day that person will come to you, or you go to them, but don't get yourself stuck on what cannot be, unless you've never found out what they have to say about it.
I notice with some responses I can go a little, OK very much over the top, it's a habit, maybe because I am sensitive to love....
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Post by Kyoko Honda on Oct 11, 2006 20:39:53 GMT -5
*hugglomp*
You never go over the top Ravik. In fact, I've always found you say just the right amount. ^_^
Yeah, he's never rejected me, and I've never asked him anything about that. We are friends (kind of... We used to be pretty "tight" but friendships wear off I suppose...) I think though that I feel more like very strong respect for him... IS that possible? Because what I felt for him when I first met him was unlike anything other, and it was even difficult for to say what it was exactly...
Is it possible... To not be sure if you love someone or not? lol. (AKA am I actually that dumb? *saws own arm off*)
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Post by fractal on Oct 12, 2006 1:00:46 GMT -5
E-yaaah!!!! @.@ N-no-no! Don't do that! *superglues BB-chan's arm back on*
Well...I do know one thing, from my friends-boys are rea~lly shy too! Perhaps he's liked you for "no good reason" over these three years too, but was just too bashful to say a thing about it! Perhaps thats why you two drifted apart-he started getting embarassed about being so close to you, and you(?) being so carefree about him!
BB-chan..."stay tr~ue to yourself!" We don't want you to turn into some kind of girl who refuses to acknowledge the facts she has feelings for any~body-and if he's shy, its alright for it to be you who makes the first word! Its alright! Its okay! The fact you are annoyed you've liked him for three years, the fact you've chosen to "remain close" to him-it all adds up, in my opinion, to make the relationship all the more stronger!
Yep. Its very possible.But then, thats life for you! Its...like...um...a bowl of noodles! *unconsciously mimicking Shigure* There may be sweet ones, sour ones, frayed ones, broken ones...but its all in the package-take all, or give it all away! Its the same with love, really...um...so what you're feeling right now, this hesitancy, its all part of the package, and if you really do have this "undescribable feeling" which you intepret as "like", is just part of it!
Its proof, if you can hate yourself for liking him for long, that is just all the more reason that your relationship is real. Uh-Uhm @.@ I-I'm not making much sense here, but-!!!!!!!!
He's probably shy too! The fact you're not as close is probably 'cause he/you got embarassed when you talked, couldn't have a conversation as long as normal-sound familiar? All the begginings of a beautiful~relationship!
Right...i'll stop being cheesy and get to the point. Whats the point of sawing yourself up and slapping yourself if you don't even know if he'll say no?!? GO FOR IT, BB-CHAN! *cheers and waves pompoms in her face*
Oh-I went to visit Dad today! (I trust you all know what that means...BB-chan?) It was great weather for a grave visit, and I'm sure Dad was happy... I did tell Dad about role-playing, and all my great friends here at PL and Furuba-Rama!
I'm sure Dad loves you all too, just like I love you all! (in...a non...homosexual way.) Mum was pretty happy too, and to celebrate Mum and I's relationship together, just like Kyoko and Tohru's, we had picnic at Dad's grave! Fun as! But of course we included Daddy too, if thats what you're going to ask ^~^ I cooked his favorite dish (kebabs with sauce!) and stuck it on his grave.
Actually...seeing Dad for the ninth-tenth anniversary was actually quite refreshing...and bittersweet too. After all, we've all gotten on with our lives-that makes me, Dad, and Mum all happy~!!
I really wish you all could've come-Dad would've welcomed the company!
Right. Off with my rant.
*lops the hair off the kid who called me a witch in grade school * Grah! Take that! And 'zat!*fences*
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Post by Kyoko Honda on Oct 12, 2006 20:01:32 GMT -5
Is started crying when I read this... Oh Bella-chan. Please tell your Dad I say hi... I don't even know why Is tarted crying... Probably because of your purity... You really aren't one to deserve this, even though you cope with it so well...
You are soo nice to me... Arigatou. I don't think I will tell him though... I don't want a relationship with him at times. At other times, I do... But I also love him and hate him... It's not worth my time. *Throws away*
My problems are meaningless though...
*kisses Bella on the forehead*
*Makes car roll over wrist for not replying to Bella's PM on Furuba-Rama* I will soon, really!!
(Lol I would so be dead by now)
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Post by Ravik on Oct 15, 2006 20:42:04 GMT -5
I would not allow myself to believe that your problems are what you call meaningless. They may seem so to you, because the problems you face every day, you end up comparing to others. The others you compare to, may have very large, or even severe problems, or more commonly; the people overly dramatizes their issues to gain attention. I'm not saying anyone here is. Another thing you need to remember, is that you are still young, and having problems with guys, relationships, or even understanding your own emotions and feelings may sometimes be a challenge. Many people in youth will feel these almost on a daily or weekly basis. So please, do not fret. If you have any problem, whether it be small, or large, talk about it. The only time it would come off as meaningless, is if you loom over the same issue every time, or you give a small problem, and refuse advise after you asked for help or advise, that's when it becomes meaningless, because it would be useless to talk about it. However, you're asking for advise, does that not count as something probable, or even speakable? I believe you have the right to talk about this, even if it be small. Please, go on.
I myself, have trouble seeing my own problems, perhaps in some ways, I purposefully ignore my problems, however, there are times where it either builds up, or a problem occurs that is so large, that I remember every problem I have, leaving me feeling depressed and snappy. I'm not like all of you, I should learn from you, and learn to either talk about my problems when the opportunity arises, or deal with it, rather than ignore it. I suppose i focus too much on remaining positive for myself and other people, looks like once and a while it comes back to me.
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Post by vivi on Oct 31, 2006 5:43:55 GMT -5
*kicks the shoutbox* No matter which forum I visit, those shoutboxes won't work! They cause my IE to close automatically! >_<
EDIT: Oh. It works again.
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Post by Ravik on Nov 1, 2006 7:54:58 GMT -5
Those Shoutboxes are not always directly affiliated with the forum, so it can slow down much more often because of how quickly they can be accessed and posted on. Therefore it must chew up more information then most other pieces of the forum. Plus, it acts individually seperate from the frum, as if it were an open link within the site. That is why it can crash more often. Once and a while, an issue within your computer can fix it once and a while by deleting your online cookies, and all your web history, try a few other things as well, but only if it becomes repetitive on more than one forum.
I spend way too much time hoping to go back into work.... That's all I have going for myself right now.
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